Do Good Anyway

On a recent Thursday, the non-profit that I run received a call from an older woman who needed help. She said she was living in a house without power or water, which is not that uncommon where we live. Like many others, she did not have a car. Most distressing, she said she did not have any food. I believe her exact answer, when I asked her if she had any food was, “I have a can of beans.”

There was more to her story and I spent quite a bit of time listening to all the twists and turns of how she came to be in her current situation. Whenever possible, I tried to connect her with resources or agencies that might be able to help. Mostly, I just listened. There was not much we or anyone else could do in the way of concrete action. Once someone has fallen deeply into poverty, the climb out – if it is even possible – is slow and long. This woman had, by her own admission, significant unpaid utility bills and no real way to pay them off. She was stuck.

Giving BreadThe one thing we could do is get her some food. I called several food pantries, including one that was just a mile away from this woman’s home. None of them were willing or able to deliver food to the woman’s house. In the end, I decided that we would take food from our pantry and deliver it ourselves, though her house was some distance away.

Unfortunately, when we arrived at her house with the emergency food assistance, no one was home. We tried her phone but there was no answer. We checked with her neighbors, who told us the woman had not been around in weeks. They all spoke ill of her.

Most people would be disheartened by this turn of events. Indeed, back at the office the staff challenged my decision to take food to this woman. They said that I was too nice and that people take advantage of me.

I disagreed. “Goodness” is not diminished by the harmful or unwholesome actions of others. Our job, individually and as an organization, is simply to do good. We help people by trying to alleviate their suffering in whatever way we can.  How people respond is not our concern. We simply work on adding more good into the world, in as many ways as we can.

Of course some people do deceive and “take advantage” of us. They are in the minority, but it happens. Often, such deceit is more a cause for compassion than anger. These people’s lives are in such a sad state that they feel that they need to lie or manipulate us to get something that we would freely give them.

Doing good is an expression of love. It is an act of generosity. It is not transactional. It does not seek a reward or payment, which is easy to forget in our world permeated by buying and selling. Doing good simply adds love and good into the world; nothing is taken away or lost. We are not diminished in any way through our kind and loving actions. However, the world around is improved a little with each act of generosity, of good, of love.

Peace, Paul

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5 Responses to “Do Good Anyway”

  1. brujsims Says:

    Reblogged this on Call to Witness and commented:
    When Jesus told us to store up for ourselves treasures in heaven, He was not referring to material possessions; such things fade over time. Instead He was referring to spiritual possessions, things that can’t be necessarily counted or stored, but bring us closer to our ultimate goal: To Be More Like Christ. When we do good for others, there is a possibility that we would be taken advantage of. What people do with our compassion is business between them and God. Our mission is to show the love of Christ to all people, which includes offering compassion to the unlovable.

  2. Dr Bob Rich Says:

    Paul, thank you for this. I am posting a link to it in the next issue of Bobbing Around.
    Exactly this is the theme of my fiction writing.

  3. Dr Bob Rich Says:

    Paul, would you have the time to read my soon-to-be published novel “Hit and Run”? If so, please email me privately.

  4. Bobbing Around Volume 16 Number 3 | Bobbing Around Says:

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    […] Deceit is more a cause for compassion than anger. Peace Paul […]

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